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I've Grown Weary Of Your Queerplatonic Relationships
There is a problem with "the queerplatonic umbrella." And it's time to fix it.
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Ana Valens
Ace Erotics: Or, Why You're Thinking About Sex and Eroticism All Wrong
And how a hypnokink aim trainer taught me why.
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NEET sex
Weeb Party, NEET sex. The fun wouldn't last forever. Ana Valens reflects on a friend circle that didn't work as she tried to reinvent herself... and…
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On Leaving Twitter
A short explanation
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Goddess Sex
A traumatic shrooms trip, disillusionment with New York millennial culture, the scary and mind-altering experience of having kinky lesbian sex with a…
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Reframing 'Kink at Pride' Discourse
The problem isn't really the kids—even if the kids are causing some of the problems.
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The Virtual Persona Pledge
A different approach to creating content via a virtual avatar, distinct from (but sometimes intersecting with) VTubing.
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A Job Opening In Games Journalism? Why Bother Applying?
Vox's Polygon is looking for a new Games Writer. Games journalist Ana Valens, now a VTuber, explains why she isn't applying for the role.
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On Rejecting Discourse
Or, why I embraced my "permalock era."
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'Demon Dash': Kink, Power, and the T4T Appeal of Dubcon
The seduction is beauty, the aim is ecstasy, the consent is dubious. A look at nadia nova's new visual novel.
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Is it time to do away with "male gaze" criticism?
And a surprising fact about girl/girl content.
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Write Like a Dyke Means Writing Against Fascism
It’s far harder to tell a person who to shoot if you can’t even tell them who to fuck.
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